Today while I was doing some work, a thought crossed my mind. The thought of why do some people just have a difficult life?
It's a very depressing thought actually. It sucks so much of energy just thinking of the question. My eyes move from left to right to left again looking for answers in my brain.
I was thinking, do we consciously seek for problems or problems are just there? Are we lack in something, like knowledge or experience? Do we know enough? Are we able to analyze effectively and come up with real solutions or are we thinking of quick fix approaches? How's our attitude? Are we pessimist or optimist? And can having a different attitude be significantly different?
How come some people can live with so many problems? Are they in denial? Sometimes I see the ones who are in denial seem to be happier. What matters here? Is it the results or the relationship? Sometimes we are so frustrated that we really feel to make tough decision but because of the relationship we hold back. At times, I observe how do some people can get to one problem from the other and look completely fine. Do they have the muscle? If the have the muscle, what is it call?
How do some people manage it? How do some people manage their time and efforts? Are we gonna be in more problems cause this current problems are still not solved yet? Do we need to solve all the problems?
Omg.. I can't think anymore.
Monday, 19 March 2012
Thursday, 15 March 2012
Overweightities
Have you been suffering from overweight problems for some time? Has weight always been an issue for you? Is it difficult to lose weight?
If you have these problems, therefore you have overweightities! It's a chronic problem where you have been overweight for some time, for at least 3 months.
Overweightities also includes if you fall in the obese category. Studies show that there are so many reasons why one becomes overweight. Most of the time the problems are having not enough time to exercise or having difficulty in getting the right choices of food. Some may also complain about having lack in technical knowledge or expertise.
However the real problem lies right deep in themselves. Deep within the human psyche, somewhere parked within their values.
Values are what's important to you. Which means our priority. Our priority forces us to do things and gets us to develop the sense of urgency. If something is of top priority, chances are you will get it done instantly. Why? Because it's of top priority. So now, ask yourself if managing weight a priority to you. If it is, then chances are that you will not be overweight, and you will be taking good care of yourself. However if there are other things that matter most to you and if managing weight is somewhere bottom in the priority list, then chances are you might be having overweightities.
So, what's your priority?
If you have these problems, therefore you have overweightities! It's a chronic problem where you have been overweight for some time, for at least 3 months.
Overweightities also includes if you fall in the obese category. Studies show that there are so many reasons why one becomes overweight. Most of the time the problems are having not enough time to exercise or having difficulty in getting the right choices of food. Some may also complain about having lack in technical knowledge or expertise.
However the real problem lies right deep in themselves. Deep within the human psyche, somewhere parked within their values.
Values are what's important to you. Which means our priority. Our priority forces us to do things and gets us to develop the sense of urgency. If something is of top priority, chances are you will get it done instantly. Why? Because it's of top priority. So now, ask yourself if managing weight a priority to you. If it is, then chances are that you will not be overweight, and you will be taking good care of yourself. However if there are other things that matter most to you and if managing weight is somewhere bottom in the priority list, then chances are you might be having overweightities.
So, what's your priority?
Tuesday, 13 March 2012
Connectoholic.
Do you need to stay connected all the time? Can't live without your Facebook or twitter? Or even can't live without your email or other forms of network?
If you have this happening to you, it means you are a CONNECTOHOLICS.
Studies are suggesting that getting online can be addictive. You will tend to look for your smartphone very often and chances are that you can't live without looking at your phone for even 5 minutes.
Studies are also suggesting that if you are a connectoholic, you tend to be stressful. The more you stay connected, the more stress you can become. The link is still unclear.
Here are 3 ways to disengage yourself from being a connectoholic:
1. Don't check your phone first thing when you get up in the morning. Do something else more useful like drinking plain water or a hot cup of coffee.
2. Meal time is phone-free time. When it's time to eat, just eat and enjoy your meal. Use that time for real conversation.
3. Take a conscious break. Like work or exercise, you need to take a break. Similarly by staying connected you need to take a break too.
Get Moving!
If you have this happening to you, it means you are a CONNECTOHOLICS.
Studies are suggesting that getting online can be addictive. You will tend to look for your smartphone very often and chances are that you can't live without looking at your phone for even 5 minutes.
Studies are also suggesting that if you are a connectoholic, you tend to be stressful. The more you stay connected, the more stress you can become. The link is still unclear.
Here are 3 ways to disengage yourself from being a connectoholic:
1. Don't check your phone first thing when you get up in the morning. Do something else more useful like drinking plain water or a hot cup of coffee.
2. Meal time is phone-free time. When it's time to eat, just eat and enjoy your meal. Use that time for real conversation.
3. Take a conscious break. Like work or exercise, you need to take a break. Similarly by staying connected you need to take a break too.
Get Moving!
Monday, 12 March 2012
Reduce your portion size.
Food portion amongst Malaysians is increasing in size. Probably we want more value for our money. Well if you ask me if you want more value for your money, it's better for you to cook at home.
Increasing portion size is increasing the "size" of the population. We are getting bigger by the day. So, here are 3 useful ways to control portion size:
1. Share the sin. If you feel that the portion is to big and you just cant finish the whole meal, a wise step is to share the meal with someone.
2. Smaller plate size. If you take a big plate, you will have more space for food. If you have more food, you will eat more food. Why go thru all this problems??? Just take a small plate!
3. Be determine. Tell yourself you are what you eat. If you wanna look good, you have to sacrifice for the start. Once you get the weight, shape or body that you want, then maybe you can cheat abit more but for now, stay strong and be focus.
Get Moving!
Increasing portion size is increasing the "size" of the population. We are getting bigger by the day. So, here are 3 useful ways to control portion size:
1. Share the sin. If you feel that the portion is to big and you just cant finish the whole meal, a wise step is to share the meal with someone.
2. Smaller plate size. If you take a big plate, you will have more space for food. If you have more food, you will eat more food. Why go thru all this problems??? Just take a small plate!
3. Be determine. Tell yourself you are what you eat. If you wanna look good, you have to sacrifice for the start. Once you get the weight, shape or body that you want, then maybe you can cheat abit more but for now, stay strong and be focus.
Get Moving!
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